Why you still can't make him fall in love when you have slept with a man many times?
Why you still can't make him fall in love when you love him so much?
Sun Tzu's art of war said: Securing yourself against defeat lies in your own hands; the opportunity to defeat the enemy is provided by the enemy himself. Thus the able fighter can secure himself against defeat, but cannot be certain of defeating the enemy. Hence the saying: You may know how to conquer the enemy, but the time may not be ripe to implement your plan.
So it's a man's own desires and flaws that lead him to fall in love with a woman, not because how many times you have slept with him and how much you spoil him.
What does sex and love have to do with that your heart and man’s heart are close?
- Love without sex means friendship: the hearts are near; the bodies are not close.
- Good Sex without love means alien relationship: the hearts are not near; the bodies are near.
- Love and sex: the hearts are near; the bodies are near too.
- When a man’s heart is close to yours, it means he has similar values, similar mindset with you, he appreciates you, and you are useful to him.
- When a man has different values, different mindset, doesn't appreciate you, and he just wants to get something from you, it means he pretends to be close to your heart.
So the most important thing that determines the quality of relationship is: values, mindset, mutual appreciation, sex.
Mindset is to bird-eye-view the values of each other; When you have seen the values and mindset of each other and still agree mutually, it means mutual appreciation.
Therefore, mindset is the reflection of the thinking of values, appreciation is the emotional expression of values.
Love = Beast + Values; Beast = fertility + health.
Therefore, beautiful, if you want to make him fall in love with you, you have to start with knowing your own values and men's values, and also be the most fertile and healthy female peacock!
- Joy Yang, Dating and Relationship Coach.
She helps creating Worthy-Wealthy-Well Women that men cannot help loving.